Long ago, a very dear friend told me over a midnight bottle of red wine that romantics like me always end up as drunken cynics. She was passing on a piece of wisdom from Joni Mitchell, and she was mostly right.*
So how did I end up with such a ridiculous name as 'joyomancy' to represent my healing work? Yes, the "joy-" means joy as in joyful and is certainly not a word to ever escape the lips of the cynic without a sneer. While "-mancy" means divination magic and invites skepticism from just about anyone...
Well, Joni Mitchell ends her song insisting that those inevitable dark days are just a phase before the possibility of transformation. And there she was right on. I eventually moved through and past that end. Because as they so commonly say, "It ain't over till it's over." And depending on the scale of your outlook there may not even be any point at which it is truly "over."
Let that thought bring you hope. and yes, eventually joy--
* 'The Last Time I Saw Richard' --Joni Mitchell